Are you in charge of planning a DIY bachelorette party at home for your bestie? Every bride-to-be deserves to have a memorable and fun send-off into married life. Right? I know it might seem like a subdued option to do it at home compared to the traditional nightclub scene or rent out a fancy venue but hear me out. It’s the perfect way to have an intimate night with your closest girlfriends while saving money.
Still, you can go all out with decorations, plan some hilarious party games, and make delicious cocktails without worrying about a bar tab. Plus, you won’t have to worry about crowded, noisy places. That means more time for conversations and creating lasting memories.
So are you ready to make your bestie’s bachelorette party at home an event she’ll never forget? I will help you out with some great bachelorette party ideas to get started.
The Best DIY Ideas for Bachelorette Party at Home
This is the last time your friend is a single woman, so let’s make it special! Get started with these creative ideas to plan the perfect home bachelorette party.
Tip: If you don’t have enough space at home to host everyone, consider booking an Airbnb for a night. Remember to ask the host if it’s possible to check in early so you can have the entire day to celebrate.
Decorating Your Home
So how do you decorate your home for a bachelorette party? Go all out and let your creative juices flow!
1: Choose a Theme
The first thing you need to do is choose a theme for the party. A theme will help set the mood and ensure all the decorations and activities are consistent. Depending on the bride’s preferences, it could be anything from a pajama party to a tropical getaway. For example, if you’re playing host to a beach party, consider incorporating seashell and netting décor and LED lights to bring out the ambiance.
2: Decide on the Venue
Once you have settled on the theme, it’s time to decide on the venue. You can host a bachelorette party in different locations in your home, depending on the theme and the number of guests. Some popular venues include the living room, backyard, and the kitchen. You might decide to set up colorful balloon arches and photo backdrops as a focal point in the living area.
3: Set the Mood with Lighting
Lighting can dramatically affect the ambiance of a space. Opt for overhead pendant lighting or hanging fairy lights to create a warm and cozy atmosphere. Flameless LED candles can help to accentuate the ambiance for a more intimate bachelorette gathering.
4. Add Personal Touches
Remember, the party is about the bride-to-be, and adding personal touches can make all the difference. So, think about her favorite colors, prints, and decor styles. You can add custom-made banners or custom-printed napkins that feature the bride-to-be’s name. A well-decorated table with cuddly napkins, different eating dishes, and decorative cups can be a great touch.
5. Have Fun with DIY Decor
Depending on the guest count and theme, there are endless opportunities to personalize decorations for the bachelorette party. For instance, you can create a DIY flower wall, custom-printed jackets or sashes for the bride and her bridesmaids, and set up a craft table for guests to decorate their party cups that customize their experience.
The possibilities are endless when planning a bachelorette party at home. With enough creativity and help from your friends, you can make the bride-to-be’s special day unforgettable.
Activities You Can Make at Home
After setting the stage with decorations, it’s time to think about activities your guests can participate in. Here are some fun ideas for bachelorette party activities at home:
1: Home Concert
Do you have friends who can sing or play instruments? Turn your home into a concert venue and have a house concert! Ensure you have enough space for your guests to sit back and enjoy the show. You can provide snacks and drinks while the music is playing. You can also have a setlist of the bride-to-be’s favorite songs. This activity guarantees fun and creates a cozy and intimate atmosphere.
2: Dance Party
Dancing is always fun to let loose and have a great time. You can hire a dance instructor to come over and teach a few routines. You can also create a playlist of everyone’s favorite songs. Decorate your space with disco balls and balloons, and have some drinks and snacks ready. You can even set up a photo booth so that everyone can capture memories from the party.
3: Pool Party
Consider taking advantage of your pool at home by throwing a pool party and soaking up some sun. Enhance the pool’s atmosphere with adornments such as floaties and garlands, and provide some refreshments for your guests to enjoy. Engage in poolside activities such as water volleyball to make the most of the occasion.
4: Home Spa
Why not create a spa right in your own home? Make use of essential oils, candles, and soothing music to create a relaxing atmosphere. You can provide facial masks, foot soaks, and massages. If you want to add fun, have a nail-painting session or DIY some body scrubs. Don’t forget to have light refreshments like fruit-infused water and small bites.
5: Movie Night
Transform your living room into a cinema. Pick a few of the bride-to-be’s favorite movies and make some popcorn. Decorate your space with cushions, blankets, and string lights to create a cozy ambiance. You can even make your own tickets and have everyone dress up like they’re going to the cinema. Adding a karaoke session at the end can make movie nights even more exciting.
Don’t be afraid to mix and match activities to make the party personal and unique.
Games to Play
No bachelorette party is complete without a few fun and exciting games. Here are fun bachelorette party games (but still PG-rated!) games you can play:
1: Dirty Minds
This is a game that will have everyone giggling and blushing. It’s a classic game that’s perfect for a bachelorette party. To play this game, you’ll need to have everyone sit in a circle and read a card with a phrase or word out loud, and everyone has to guess the clean meaning of the word. As its name suggests, the meaning isn’t quite what it seems. E.g., ‘What can you stick in your underwear’? (answer: pockets). The player with the most correct answers wins.
2: Bachelorette Bingo
If you want something easy and fun, bachelorette bingo is the best bachelorette party game idea to try. You can create your bingo boards with phrases or items related to the bride-to-be. As you play the game, guests can mark off items on their bingo board as they hear or see them during the party. The first person to complete their board wins.
3: Drinking Game
Let’s face it; bachelorette parties are best served with some alcohol. You can choose from many different drinking games, such as “Never Have I Ever” or “Two Truths and a Lie,” where players take a drink if they’ve done or said something on the card. You know your friends best, so choose a game you think everyone will enjoy.
4: Prosecco Pong
This is a twist on the classic game of beer pong but with the ladies’ favorite drink: Prosecco! You’ll need a long table, Prosecco cups, and ping pong balls. Divide the group into teams and have them take turns trying to shoot the ball into the cups of the opposing team. If a ball lands in a cup, the opposing team has to drink the Prosecco in that cup.
5: Scavenger Hunt
Who doesn’t love a good scavenger hunt? Create a list of items the bride-to-be must collect or tasks she must complete around the house or neighborhood. You can even incorporate embarrassing tasks like taking a selfie with a stranger while wearing a veil or singing a song in a crowded area.
6: Casino Night
Create a makeshift casino in your living room by setting up different card games such as blackjack, poker, and Texas Hold ’em. You can also order a roulette wheel and hire a croupier for the night to make it feel more authentic. To add excitement, you can give fake casino chips to each guest as part of their welcome package, and whoever has the most chips at the end of the night wins a prize. Provide cocktails and snacks to keep guests happy and ready to roll the dice.
7: Blind Wine Tasting
Put your palate to the test by organizing a blind wine-tasting competition. You can purchase various types of wines and cover the labels with masking tape so guests can’t see which wine they are tasting. Provide a scorecard for each guest to rate each wine from 1-10, and at the end of the competition, the guest with the highest score takes home a bottle of their favorite wine. This game is fun and will teach you about the different types of wines and how to pair them with different food.
8: Bachelorette Guessing Game
If you’re looking for a game that’s not too competitive and requires minimal effort, this bachelorette guessing game is perfect. It’s the perfect icebreaker and everyone can get involved. In this game, the bride-to-be writes down several facts about herself on a piece of paper, and the guests must guess which fact is true or false. For example, the bride-to-be can write: “I once went on a date with a celebrity,” the guests must guess if it’s true or false. Once everyone has guessed, the bride-to-be reveals the answer. This game is a great way to get to know the bride-to-be and her quirky facts.
Don’t forget to take pictures and videos throughout the night to capture the memories.
Bonus Tips: List of Theme for Bachelorette Party at Home
As bonus tips, here are some themes to consider incorporating into your bachelorette party at home:
Naughty Theme
A naughty theme could be just the ticket for the bride-to-be who isn’t afraid to let her hair down and have a little fun. Whether it’s lingerie, games, or adult-themed snacks and drinks, there are plenty of ways to make this bachelorette party both raunchy and fun. You could even hire a stripper or burlesque dancer to add some spice to the night.
Lingerie Shower Theme
If you want to give the bride some sexy new outfits to wear on her honeymoon, a lingerie shower theme is perfect. Ask everyone to bring a piece of lingerie in the bride’s size, or have a lingerie decorating contest where everyone decorates a piece of underwear for the bride. You could also have a bra-fitting party, and champagne showers, complete with mimosas and snacks.
Sex & the City
If your bride-to-be is a fan of the classic TV show or movies, a Sex & the City theme is a perfect choice. You can decorate with pink and black balloons and streamers, serve up some cosmopolitans and other Sex & the City-inspired cocktails, and watch some episodes of the show or movie as a group. You could even hire a food truck to serve cupcakes and other fun snacks.
Decade Theme (1960s/70s/80s)
Remember the good old days when life was more groovy and retro? Well, why not bring those memories back with a decade-themed bachelorette party at home? This theme is perfect for those who love to dress up in funky clothes and dance the night away to old-school tunes. You can set up a disco ball and neon lights and play music from the era. Morever, you can add colorful balloons, lava lamps, and retro props such as vintage cameras or vinyl records for the decorations. You and your friends can dress up in bell bottoms, mini-skirts, and big hair. Don’t forget to serve classic party drinks such as Mai Tais, Margaritas, and Cosmopolitans to keep the party going.
Around the World Theme
Travel may not be possible now, but you can still experience different cultures at home. An around-the-world-themed bachelorette party can transport you and your friends to different countries without leaving your living room. You can pick a few countries and decorate each station with their flag, clothing, and iconic items. For instance, you might have a Japanese station where you serve sushi, sake, and wasabi peas. Or, you could have a Mexican station with piñatas, margaritas, and tacos. You can also add photo booths, music, and cultural games to make it more fun.
Slumber Party Theme
Who said slumber parties are only for kids? A slumber party-themed bachelorette party can be a great way to bond with your girlfriends while enjoying pampering and relaxation. You can decorate the room with cozy blankets, pillows, and fairy lights. Moreover, you can also rent some massage chairs or hire a masseuse to give everyone a soothing massage.
You can serve popcorn, candy, and hot chocolate for the snacks. You can also play classic sleepover games such as truth, dare, or karaoke. Don’t forget to bring some face masks, nail polish, and beauty products to make everyone feel extra special. This is a great way to reconnect with your old pals and reminisce about old times.
Disney Princesses Theme
If the bride-to-be is a big fan of Disney princesses, this theme is perfect for her. You and your friends can dress up as your favorite Disney princess and enjoy a fairy-tale-themed bachelorette party at home. In addition, you can decorate the room with Disney posters, balloons, and castle backdrops. You can also play Disney music, watch Disney movies, and even have a Disney-inspired cake. For the costumes, you can wear matching tiaras, dresses, and shoes. In order to enchant it, you can add some extra touches, such as fairy dust and magic wands. This theme is not just for kids; it’s for the young at heart.
Girls’ Night In Theme
Who says that you need to go outside to have a great time? A girls’ night in theme is perfect for a cozy and chill bachelorette party. Decorate the room with pink or red balloons and strings of lights to create a welcoming ambiance. You can also set up a DIY cocktail station and serve finger foods such as cupcakes, pizza, or cheese platters that you can easily prepare. For activities, you can play drinking games, spa nights, and movie marathons. This theme is perfect for a bride-to-be looking to spend a night bonding with her friends.
The Hangover
If you’re looking for a wild and crazy night, The Hangover theme might be the perfect choice. The popular movie inspires this theme and involves a night of heavy drinking and mayhem. Decorate the space with party banners in black and metallic colors, and serve plenty of alcohol, including the classic drink, “Jägerbombs.” Don’t forget to provide some recovery kits for the morning after, such as painkillers, vitamin supplements, and energy drinks. It’s a great way to let loose and have a crazy night with your closest friends.
Tropical Theme
If you wish for a beach holiday but can’t travel, you can bring the tropical paradise straight to your home with a tropical theme. Decorate the space with colorful flowers, inflatable palm trees, and tiki torches. You can serve tropical drinks like Margaritas, Pina Coladas, and Daiquiris. For snacks, you can provide a fruit platter, grilled kebab, and other island-inspired dishes. Add some games, such as limbo or Hula dance contests, to keep the party going. This theme is perfect for a low-key and fun night with your friends.
These are just some ideas to create a memorable bachelorette party at home. You can make any theme work for your special night with the right decorations, food, and activities.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I throw my own bachelorette party?
Who says you can’t throw your own bachelorette party?! It’s your wedding and your celebration, after all. You know what you enjoy and what would make for an epic girls’ night out. Planning your bachelorette party allows you to customize the festivities to your liking, whether a low-key spa day with your bridal squad or a wild night out on the town. Plus, you won’t have the added pressure of ensuring everyone else is having a good time.
Who pays for a bachelorette party?
In my experience, the cost of a bachelorette party is typically split among the bride’s closest girlfriends, including the maid of honor and bridesmaids. However, it all depends on the expectations and budget of the group. Some brides may prefer a low-key celebration with just a few friends, while others may want a lavish weekend getaway with their whole crew. Regardless of the chosen activity, it’s important to communicate and come to a consensus on who will cover the expenses. No one wants to feel pressured to spend more money than they can afford, so it’s important to consider everyone’s financial situation and plan accordingly.
What not to do at Bachelorette?
There were definitely a few things that you should avoid doing at a bachelorette party. First, do not overindulge in alcohol. I know it can be tempting to let loose and go wild but trust me; you don’t want to be the one passed out by 9 PM. Also, do not bring up any drama or negativity. Let’s keep the focus on the bride and celebrating her upcoming marriage!
Another thing to avoid is inviting uninvited guests. This is a special weekend for the bride and her closest friends, so let’s not bring along any random acquaintances or exes. Moreover, do not spend the whole time on your phone. It is a time to bond with the other attendees and make memories to last a lifetime.
Final Words
Well, there you have it! The perfect solution for a memorable bachelorette party at home! I know it might not seem as glamorous as jetting off to Vegas or Cancun, but trust me, it can be just as fun (if not more!). As a bride-to-be, there’s something special about being in the comfort of their own home with their closest friends, and with a little creativity and planning, you can easily create an unforgettable experience.
From DIY decor and games to unique cocktails and spa treatments, the possibilities for a bachelorette party at home are endless. So next time you’re struggling with party ideas, why consider staying home and making unforgettable memories with the girls? Cheers to the soon-to-be Mrs! 🙂
